Bill Van Loan's Resilience

Naida Cole - An Unforgettable Pianist and Super Entertainer

Naida Cole has fallen in love with the piano and loves her life as well. I can't tell you how much I enjoy her music and how clear everything feels and looks when I hear her play.

Play any CD of hers or attend a concert and your life will light up like never before. Naida loves people and you can feel the energy and all her warmth with her masters touch and sensitivity that's so hard to find.

Naida is a joy to hear and personifies what fun and living in the moment is all about. 

Listen to Naida and feel the warm...

The Heart of 9/11 by Rebecca Solnit Is Resilient

The Heart of 9/11 by Rebecca Solnit is a very touching piece that touched my heart. Rebecca is a wonderful writer and a woman who can shine no matter how hard the darkness falls. She has a gift with words and knows how to use them.

Leaders Who Care Count The Most

Super leaders have a heart. They have compassion and care. The best leaders will seek out a win/win deal before they strike out.

Why Not Me?

Anytime you see an opportunity that you want more than anything in the world, just say "why not me" and mean it to yourself along with the rest of the world. Be enthusiastic about your work and others will brag about it.

More leaders like you are needed right now. Why not you?

Leaders quite often start out as followers. Who are you following and why?

Strong leadership is needed everywhere. I know you can handle that...

Live For Something

Mission statements change but your passions often remain intact. Hang onto your dreams and set new records with the life you touch today.

Stay focused and hang tight. Your greatest moments are coming sooner than you think.

Little White Lies Are Still Lies That Can End Your Relationship

A lie is a lie.

Lies hurt and nobody forgets their feelings of disappointment. Emotionally healthy relationships are built on the truth and all these players who try to seduce and later destroy what they thought they had but didn't fail.

People who take advantage of others lose big. Financially, morally and spiritually. Treat people right and you'll have the upper hand in creating a deal that's a win/win almost every time.

Men: I think women make better leaders and to all the men who lack that support - inspire yourself to think differently and change the way you look at the world.

Women and Men: Ask lots of questions before you get to close. The heart you may save may just be your own and if there is a connection, you'll feel joy like there's no tomorrow. That's real magic.

Always look for honesty and listen to yourself. Your body knows...and take your time.

Lies Kill Relationships and Will Kill You If You Let Them

Never ignore a lie. Deal with it even if it means the end of a love affair. Lies don't support love. Never lie to yourself because your body always knows.

In Divorce Court, one person will scream "I wanted you to change" and the other strikes back with "I thought I could change you". Lies cover up what both parties knew in the beginning (in general).

Clear communication and lots of questions may save you a heartbreaker. The people who care about you the most will tell you the truth and give you the respect you know, love and deserve.

Never settle for less because as you grow you will always deserve better.

If others lie to you, don't obsess too much or allow them to consume you and turn your life inside out. Please seek support and professional help because that's your time and your time is your life.

Try to manage your life in such a way so that when your head hits the pillow, your smile lights up the sky. Hold on to your power and rest on the foundation that holds you up.

Stay self-reliant and stay healthy and happy. Lies will enable you to achieve a better quality of life (by being more selective with your dream team) or they will devour you - but only if you let them.