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On Love: Dating tips and advice Featuring Andrea Syrtash Author of He's Just Not Your Type (And That's a Good Thing)

Andrea Syrtash tells it like it is and is the author of He's Just Not Your Type (And That's a Good Thing). It's available on Amazon and reviews are included in this link.  

More on dating and relating shortly.

Marni Battista/Dating with Dignity Shares Her Thoughts on How Social Media Can Kill Your Social Life - If You Let It

Marni shares some cool points about Facebook and related applications. There are so many ways to meet and get to know others and for some - it's all online. Almost every generation is using the net for some type of connection.

Marni adds class where it's lacking in this article.

Parents of the Internet Age and Generation Y who post naked pictures of themselves on the web for all to see (just to get some short term results) should be screaming endlessly...Those pictures will reappear in the next 30 or 40 years and present issues at work (among other places of issue). Nothing leaves the Internet with or without dignity. This group needs Marni's help like there's no tomorrow.

Marni is a class act. Her passion runs high and she loves what she does. Marni loves people and really cares. Her web is updated daily and she has a lot to say. I'm right behind her. 

Susan Campbell, Ph. D Gets Real about the Truth in Dating and Intimate Relationships

Susan Campbell is the real thing when it comes to conflict and resolution in a variety of relationships. She's a real pro and covers dating and relating from A to Z.

Susan knows how to make you think and inspires the deepest part of my self to change for the better and be the best person I can be.

Women will love her work and men will faint when they realize all the valuable material Susan shares (that their missing) about healthy relationships.

Highly recommended!

Turning dating rules into career success with Nicole Williams

Turning dating rules into career success. This is worth reading. Nicole Williams is fighting for other women.

Always Approach Your Desired Date - Be Proactive With Your Future Partners

Always approach. If you get rejected then regroup or move on. Make dealing with your shyness priority number one.

Same content applies with work. Think about it...

Shy People Sometimes Forget to Approach the Right Type

If your shy, you must figure out a way to approach your potential date and know what you want. Practice this and you won't have time to read this blog anymore. You'll have to leave your comfort zone to change though.

Start easy and and your anxiety won't be as high. Do something you love and maybe in a group. If you meet your type and become friends, the rest is often easy - at least for the moment. Relationships take a lot of work.

Listen to your body and take your time. What happens overnight can fall apart overnight.

Once your fear of rejection and failure is not an issue then your world will never be the same again.

Always approach and look at your results. If you need more coping skills, consider therapy and again watch your results.

Time is ticking away, think win/win.

Last note: Are you happy with yourself and would you date yourself? Noteworthy questions for your consideration. Ask lots of questions. You'll be glad you did and all this starts when your ready.

Are you ready? If not now, when will you be and what will it take?

Dating and Relating for Men

New column starting soon. Men, if your needy, you must read this Blog. That's your teaser.