Bill Van Loan ~ Memorist & Strategist

Maureen P. Tillman Presents College Corner: Dealing With Dangerous Dating

Maureen P. Tillman has written a number of wonderful articles that provide lots of info, links and thought provoking content. A must read for women who want a happy outcome in their love life.

Dangerous Dating is mandatory reading for young women who don't know what they don't know. 

On Love: Dating tips and advice Featuring Andrea Syrtash Author of He's Just Not Your Type (And That's a Good Thing)

Andrea Syrtash tells it like it is and is the author of He's Just Not Your Type (And That's a Good Thing). It's available on Amazon and reviews are included in this link.  

More on dating and relating shortly.

Marni Battista/Dating with Dignity Shares Her Thoughts on How Social Media Can Kill Your Social Life - If You Let It

Marni shares some cool points about Facebook and related applications. There are so many ways to meet and get to know others and for some - it's all online. Almost every generation is using the net for some type of connection.

Marni adds class where it's lacking in this article.

Parents of the Internet Age and Generation Y who post naked pictures of themselves on the web for all to see (just to get some short term results) should be screaming endlessly...Those pictures will reappear in the next 30 or 40 years and present issues at work (among other places of issue). Nothing leaves the Internet with or without dignity. This group needs Marni's help like there's no tomorrow.

Marni is a class act. Her passion runs high and she loves what she does. Marni loves people and really cares. Her web is updated daily and she has a lot to say. I'm right behind her. 

Susan Campbell, Ph. D Gets Real about the Truth in Dating and Intimate Relationships

Susan Campbell is the real thing when it comes to conflict and resolution in a variety of relationships. She's a real pro and covers dating and relating from A to Z.

Susan knows how to make you think and inspires the deepest part of my self to change for the better and be the best person I can be.

Women will love her work and men will faint when they realize all the valuable material Susan shares (that their missing) about healthy relationships.

Highly recommended!

Turning dating rules into career success with Nicole Williams

Turning dating rules into career success. This is worth reading. Nicole Williams is fighting for other women.

Love, Lust and Luck - Make It or Break It!

Are there any chance encounters? I say create your own luck and wait for no one. Make a plan and take action to build on your next glorious relationship.

Don't take a number. Create your own rules and think about your own happiness as opposed to what the rest of the world may or may not be thinking.

And so what if they don't approve? Would you approve of your current strategy and the results that you hold in your hand? That's what really matter and that's where it starts.

That's where it starts. I would focus on getting what you want today and not waiting for the rest of the world to show up.

Show up for yourself. That's the starting line. Now how much do you want to win?

Dating and Intimacy

Sex within four dates is not smart. Take your time and get to know your potential partner well. Initiate the interview because if this person is shy then you may be out of time before you know it. Think about yourself, your needs and wants.

Looking down the hall of mirrors that line memories in your mind, are you happy with yourself and if not when will you be and what will it take?

Be self-reliant and pick the best people to share your time with. You deserve the best so never settle for less. Stay strong on your search.

It's just time...

Always Approach When Dating and Making Friends

If you want to meet a good match and develop a glorious relationship, then approach and don't wait for someone else. If you miss out, you may feel like you rejected yourself and that's worse than being rejected by someone you don't even know (yet).

You never know what's waiting for you. Always approach.

It's a Woman's World - Get More Results Than Rejection

Ladies, don't wait for your dream guy to discover you. Women call the shots better because they know their needs better and make better leaders - Period!

Why wait when the whole world is behind you and win/win is only a moment away?

Set in your ways? You may want to consider changing your strategy so you get more results than rejection.

What you allow into a relationship will grow so why not take the lead and try something different?

I hope our next President is a woman. Use your imagination? Just think?

Needy Men and Women are More Than Insecure, Their Almost Crazy

These people act five-year-old brats who constantly need your reassurance. Run from these people if you truly value your time.

Needy people need psychotherapy and other forms of professional help.

Leave them and don't let them wreck your life. Take responsibility and choose your future friends, dates and partners wisely and don't let these toxic destroyers kill your time.

Needy people are time wasters of the highest order and will wipe out your romantic moments. Needy people are just so unhealthy that I say walk the other way and get what you want.

Needy men and women will never be there for you. They need to grow up first.

Want more proof? Date a needy person and watch your life go to hell.

Needy people are chronically undeveloped and that's an understatement.

Do you really expect a needy person to change? It's hard work! Please get back to me on that last question?