Bill Van Loan ~ Communications Strategist with a Photgraphic Memory

Parents - If You Have Children That are Underage (Teens) Then You Need To Watch this Documentary ASAP: Oral Sex Is The New Goodnight Kiss!

Oral Sex Is The New Goodnight Kiss - Documentary is something to think about and discuss. Very relevant. Every parent needs to take responsibility for their children. If you can't talk to your children then you may want to talk to a therapist ASAP. 

Fathers Day That Stops Before It Starts

Here we go again with yet another special day to celebrate the one we know and love but don't (or at least not enough).

Why not appreciate someone everyday as opposed to one big day a year? Why not remember where we came from? Why, why, why...

I am appreciated everyday yet others are not. That says a lot about society and a Fathers Day that misses the mark. Life is not fair and that's too bad when it comes to families who can't see straight.

Show your appreciation and show your love every day and start with yourself.

The Room That Screamed

How can two people marry, have a child and then neglect it? Worse! How can this loving couple ignore the child as it screams till no end?

These parental tragedies are beyond sad and worth screaming about but who will listen?

Children Who See Nothing In The Mirror Remember Everything

Children never forget their hardships and neither should you.

The looking glass will forever haunt individuals who break lives of innocent children who once stole the night.

Dark dreams, dark days and dark sides. It all starts somewhere.

The children of the night will never give up.

Never...

Young Children Who Never Stop Crying Need a Lot of Love

Working out with your kids is such a healthy and wonderful thing but neglecting children is a disgrace to humanity.

Give your children everything you can before they become adults and leave you. Separation anxiety can be very painful and children who are left behind never forget.

Transitions are normal but move smoother when human beings are respected and treated like human beings of the highest caliber.

Children deserve the best and so do you.

My Way, Your Way and Our Way or No Way. Many Options To Choose!

Family connections run deep and wide even after the individual leaves the family. While others may get set in their ways - it's imperative that you continue to grow and change.

It's hard work to be yourself and evolve but it's possible. Never stop growing, learning and loving life. Be your own parent and never sacrifice yourself for another.

No one's here to serve others for life. Serve yourself.

Emotionally healthy family members and friends will accept you as you are and encourage you to be the best you can be without strings attached.

Breaking free is not easy but nothing beats living your own life and thinking for yourself - for better or for worse.

Friendly Terms v. Friends

The holidays bring up so many issues and one is clarity. Be clear about where you stand in your family and think about the direction your taking.

Forgive for yourself but don't forget.

Trust too much and get burned and trust too little and your alone.

Communicate your needs for today as well as the new year and things may improve. If things are good, they may even get better.

Don't waste time and play any games because your needs suffer when you do.

Know where you stand and be honest. It's your life and regrets are the last thing you have time for.

Fragmented families need professional help.

Start the new day and new year with a clear plan so your results reflect your best and the terms of your current status is crystal clear.

Friendly terms and staying friends stand for two different things. Know what you want so when the time is right, you probably won't go without and stay self-reliant.

Your responsible for you and your needs and that's the bottom line.

Do Unto Others and My Door Is Open To You

The door you closed to me may be reopened if you treat me the way you would like to be treated. Why is it so hard for people to get this down?

There are many reasons and lots of stories.

Thought: Know your story and do others right. Show them some respect and you may begin to earn their loyalty and who knows what else... but playing the victim will leave you locked out of the home you once thought was yours and that means you stop where you started with me.

Is this behavior worth it? Is it pathological and does that mean it's hopeless?

I say you can grow in a 100-plus directions. Why stop and burn bridges?

Why and what will you do about it? And, when?

If this sounds like family to you, then your door is probably closed!

Theme: Do Unto Others...

Never Miss Your Family Reunions - Family Is Family

Pass on the High School Reunions. The Internet will get you that but save your family before it's too late. I know older people who outgrew their family and they regret not spending more time with them.

What will you do and when will you do it.

Los Angeles - (1972 - 2007)

1972 - I looked out the window of my Fathers office and saw the prettiest day of my life and knew my life would never be the same again.

Change is an understatement because I was right on target and I never thought twice about any of this.

It happened in L.A. and now my next move will complement my life as a whole in ways never expressed before.

Without saying much, I will say that's pretty exciting and so worth looking forward to.