Here's one way:
Think of failing as practice. Leaders take it personally but never give up. Even if you fail a 100 times or more, you must rebound and regroup. You must try again and not fold.
Whether your goal is to get a date or secure a job, just think, they may be looking for just one thing and when they get it then your set and your confidence and experience is a 100 times more than what it was in the beginning.
Think for yourself and never give up on you.
Be resilient, be yourself and be the leader that you were meant to be. Bury I can't because you can...
You are more than you think you are. Agree? Fail and hope are just four letter words. How much power and meaning will you give them until you take it back and win?