Games that people play while in love is such an oxymoron and is not for grown ups. Look out because you can see this coming a mile away (even in the honeymoon phase). Remove yourself and you will save yourself so much sorrow.
Adult children may have some serious challenges when it comes to falling in love, staying in love and managing themselves. It's possible, yes, and it may be hard but not impossible.
There is no game of love but there is a lot of love if your looking.
The more experiences you have the better. How else will you know what you like and don't like. This applies to all areas of your life.
Now, the challenge. Other people who don't exactly work out and really give you a headache. Your job to soul satisfaction and the relationship of your dreams is to not disturb yourself and get yourself so upset that you end up missing out on something you really want but did not see - because your on fire about something that's really not in your future.
Does that make sense?
You will live longer if your stress level is lower and so will your love life. Save your drama for your life story on film and live for today.
If your out holiday shopping - make sure you buy yourself a really nice gift.
A classic song title goes 'Your the best thing that ever happened to me' so remind yourself of that by dedicating something special to you every day.
The love you create is equal to the love you make.
Last note - your best friends and partners will love you for who you are - not your job, money etc. I mean nothing more and nothing less.
You are number one and that's where the focus needs to be. Otherwise your focus will be somewhere else.
Make sure all your power stays with yourself. If it's not you then who is more worthy?