Bill Van Loan ~ Memorist & Strategist

I'm In Love With Barbora Knobova's Message and The Music She Inspires Me To Feel

Barbora Knobova. She makes me melt and is so real, she's unreal. There are no words to desribe my excitement for Barbora and I wish more people had her passion and zest for life.

The hyperlink takes you to one of my favorite all time post by Barb and as usual, she never fails and always delights. Barb is unique and takes you to a place that you long for and can't find. Barb is very comfortable in her own skin and I dare you to try her blog out and see what you have been missing.

This blog entry - SO WHAT IF I DON'T FIT IN is an epic that everyone can relate to. I admire Barb's honesty and gutsy writing. She's not afraid to tell the truth and her words just want to dance off the page.

Looking for higher self-esteem? Don't miss Barb - she's a winner everytime. Her words are more than sexy and smart - there music that brings you the sweetest harmony....

Build Self-Confidence by Boosting Self-Esteem: Key Ways to Find the Bravado Within | Intent.com Features Alicia Amie

Build Self-Confidence by Boosting Self-Esteem: Key Ways to Find the Bravado Within | Intent.com.

Alicia Amie covers a lot of territory. Her blog is more than inspiring and you check it out right here.

No Matter What! Never Put Yourself Down

Put downs resolve nothing. It's just abuse.

So what if you made a mistake or missed an important deadline. The list never ends. That's what being human is all about. The person who makes the most mistakes quite often wins and grows the most. What a life...

Accept yourself and everything that comes with you. Baggage can also add value to your life. How many people have your experience and can say they have seen the other side of the mountain that thought was impossible to climb.

Everyone learns their behaviour from someone and the blame game is a dead end. In present tense, ask yourself how you can heal and forgive yourself? What will all this mean in 100 years? Just think? No one has time to beat themselves up when you can do what your not doing right now.

The payoff is you and the greatest life any of us could ever enjoy without harm or regrets. Respect yourself and build yourself up and change if you make a mistake. The whole world is waiting to see the new you which wears a bigger smile and shines like a light.

I'm sure I made a few mistakes in this post and I just let myself off the hook. I'll sleep so well and with a clear mind.

How about you? Don't you deserve to be treated even better on your worst day? I say yes...

Ladies - Are You Happy or Sad? This Study Says Women Are Unhappier Today - True or False?

Barbara Ehrenreich presents "The Sad Truth". I read this article in the LA Times this morning and I think her points are more than valid. This is worth reading whether your a man or a woman who is happy or unhappy. Any age will benefit.

Thought provoking and telling? More mandatory reading on Barbara and her insights at TomDispatch.com ....

Dark Moments

If I can find even a hair of light in my eyes, then I know I can survive the darker shades of life. When I can look into the mirror and like what I see, even though the mirror has broken into so many pieces, I know I can thrive again.

And, when I see nothing but darkness and make light of that, I know I'll make it. Sometimes there is no light at the end of the tunnel and that's when I make my own.

Is darkness such a bad place to be? The dark moments can actually enhance the brightness and show me what I wanted to see the most.

And, it has...a dark shade of light can light up a life and that's an interesting point.

Dark

Underrated? - Try Something Different

It's your job to pick yourself up after falling down (emotionally speaking) so don't wait for someone to save you when they can't.

Never settle for less and surround yourself with people who are really emotionally healthy and don't just look it.

Do something you would not normally do that creates a win/win and do it today.

Try something different and experiment. Let go a little. Rate your progress, measure the results and take a new look at yourself.

Mirror mirror on the wall, who's that angel standing tall? Mirrors are cool.

Stay cool, stay strong and be happy.

Too Much, Too Soon And Too Late - What Does This All Mean?

Being naturally mercurial may translate into doing things at the very last moment for all the right reasons and producing a masterpiece of work.

Be yourself and never let others dictate what you will do with your life.

If the last minute rush works and the world is a better place then make your own music and play on.

Everyone is different so why try to be someone your not. No one can be you no matter what they think.

Be unique and be the person you were meant to be. Never let others define or judge you. That's your job, even if your running late.

Some Like It Hot

It's time to act accordingly with a new set of reports. Competence builds confidence and that increases a persons self-esteem which means a silver lining is waiting for me.

I just have to fight for it. No one said life is fair.

Dealing With Unreal Fear Using Real Courage

I have found that once a time tested strategy is developed then the anticipatory anxiety falls because your prepared for what you think is the worst possible outcome.

Fear can be your worst enemy or best friend.

Listen to your body and plan ahead.