Bill Van Loan ~ Communications Strategist with a Photgraphic Memory

Book of Odds - The Recession’s Domestic Toll

Book of Odds - The Recession’s Domestic Toll. This article decribes the pain women can live without. It's never too late to get the coping skills down and yet it's the tough times that bring the best or in this case the very worst out of people who once said "I Love You".

Even men suffer and to these couples I can only ask why? Anyone who can relate to this abuse - please seek professional help and take responsibility. Your time is passing, for better or for worse.....There are so many options available to you.

Nothing is forever and nothing is worth the abuse desribed in this post or any type of abuse for that matter.

Stained Souls That Survive and Thrive

When you know your partners secrets, nightmares and precious intimate moments that make them so real, it can feel unreal.

Successful soul survivors heal and they never forget how close two people can come. Connection is everything when it comes to relationships that work and last. People do change and quality time is choice.

Getting closer is next to falling in love with your life.

Being there for someone can save a life and change another forever. Accepting all this and taking a risk is not easy. Going deeper and showing your true self will take you further.

Open yourself to new experiences, look into your mirror and ask yourself how far your willing to go.

Make it a Sky High Weekend and do something you have never done before - something so real it feels unreal and touches another life in all the right ways.

Here Comes the PAIN

Don't deny who you are! Face your feelings and work through your pain. You always have more options and there is a light at the end of the tunnel.

Stay focused and be yourself. This is an opportunity to grow like never before.

Last: Use your support system and don't isolate. Focus on yourself and what your current needs are.

Feel this pain and don't run away. It's with you wherever you go and may become a tremendous asset for you. No one saw that coming.

Truth is stranger than fiction... Pain and fear can be your best friend or worst enemy. What will it be for you?

That's power.

Joy

Joy is looking into her eyes and knowing I'm right where I belong and want to be. More joy is knowing she feels the same.

Secrets That Help and Secrets That Hurt

Secrets that hurt do no one a favor but some secrets are healthy. In this tough economy, consider being extra kind and don't keep that a secret. That goes personal and professional.

Touch Their Heart and Treasure Them Before It's Too Late

Never wait to tell someone you really care about how much they mean to you. Don't hold back because you may never get the chance again.

Little things add up and people remember who's kind to them and who's not. It's a small world and a little or a lot of appreciation can go a long way.

If you really care about someone then tell them and let them hear the sound of your music and the true passion that you know and love.

Connecting Is Everything

The question is are you connecting or disconnecting with the people who really love you?

True Lies Or True Lives

A relationship that lacks credibility lacks a reputation to sustain itself.

Bottom line: If you can't tell the truth then your in the wrong relationship and your doing yourself in. Little white lies are lies and count against you. No one's laughing.

Politician: In stead of lying there why not be there for someone else.

Honesty rules and no one loves a liar!

Trust Or Lust?

Without intimacy, you have no deep relationship. Individuals who are really hot for you yet lack the coping skills to build a solid relationship need to stay on the friends list or less.

You are your time and you have a million options when it comes to your next love story. Getting closer is part of building the intimate details that create such a glorious relationship.

Manage your issues and know yourself well. That one in a million is looking for you and now is the time to get ready.

She Came Close - Closer Than I Could Ever Dream Of And Then I Touched Her

What next? Try going deeper and find the feelings you have never felt before. They are there. So much of you wants so much more.

Paint a portrait of yourself that reflects what means the most to you. Never settle for less. Get help if you have to but get what you want.

If you focus on the intimacy then your love will stretch deep and wide and last so much longer.

If your looking for a new experience today then experiment and try something different so you can get something different and something better.

Every second offers a chance to connect and to write a new chapter in your life.

Start writing today and start by touching the one who really loves you. It's not over and she's looking for you. What are you waiting for? Get closer. Heaven is whatever you want it to be. Just do something.