Bill Van Loan ~ Communications Strategist with a Photgraphic Memory

Touching Me/Touching You - Love Stories That Last a Lifetime

I left an unforgettable lasting impression on her. It's a gift. My visibility increases and I realize that I'm in a separate category of my own.

And then, she took it all off and touched me with tears of joy. It feels as if we both want every part of each other.

The honeymoon phase has passed and I wonder how I can look so hard at another when looking at her. The mirror of life colors my dreams as I think about another night without her.

Love is what you make it. I have made it well and as I look up close at my life, I know she sits besides me and touches me like no other.

She is life and without love, I would miss her so and be touched with endless teardrops.

She and I both know that we have created a glorious relationship and savor every second.

I touched her. She touched me. We touched each others lives and in such a rarity of a way. Unique. Now, we can't stop loving each other.

Soul deep is when you want for the other what you would want for yourself. Those dreams are coming true.

And, she knows how...

She Looked So Hot, It Felt So Right and Then I Got Burned! What Happened?

Who's responsible for this? Your's truly and not the opposing partner (men engage in this behavior too). Take time to really get to know someone and become friends before lovers so you end up happy and not hurt. There are no guarantees as people change but too many people rush in because the energy or whatever is so seductive and enticing and then miss out on so much.

Ask lots of questions. People love to talk. Stay true to yourself. Don't sell out.

Seduction turns into destruction with an irritable attitude. A break-up occurs and now the next really good partner is a challenge to trust. This is a complete psychological reversal. Slow down and your issues will become more clear and you'll know what to do.

Forgive for yourself but never forget and first impressions are not always what they appear to be. Try not to burn yourself again and take responsibility without blaming your partner.

Blaming is a dead end but learning how to trust again is not...

Love Stories That Made Your Heart Stop And Your Life Drop

Love can rev you up like a rollercoaster. Maintain your structure in life so your balanced when what you thought would never end ends.

Chemical greed can rob you of your reason. Love yourself first and you will suffer less when your relationship changes and your left all alone. We all need friends who are there for you and ready for what comes next....

Give yourself something to look forward to and treat yourself with the care and love you deserve.

Withholding And Shame, Shame

I give my partners my all, my everything and I'm proud of it. I hide nothing and welcome a stronger connection. Everyone has needs and those needs will be neglected if they are not released.

Stay strong and be as real as you can be. It may not be easy but it's worth the work and the two of us benefit in ways we always wanted but failed to achieve. Getting closer is intimate but withholding is not helping anyone and creates the shame cycle.

Romantic Relationships That Go Nowhere

True love, security and intimacy start in your heart. Being dependent on these issues (as well as others) in another partner will only lead to a lot of frustration and depression. Be independent and claim your power.

Rebalance.

If your relationship is looking a lot like love on the run then cherish the good stuff and add that to your next dream come true. This is so easy to do because the people in your life are handpicked by you and that's even more power when you need it the most.

The choice is yours: I say do it your way - today...

What's Inside Your Closet Of Darkness

Everything your avoiding. All the secrets can help you get what you want today. They can also hold you back.

What bothers you the most? Problem solve this and you just took a ton of stress off your life and all you have to do is face your pain and deal with the reality that things may not be as they seem.

Where do you live?

It's not in the past or is it?

No intimacy, no therapy, a resistance to change?

How about no more sleepless nights and the light of sunshine beaming through your closet door? Open that door and let the sunshine in.

It's time and your ready...

Fantasies Revealed

Now the test begins. The fantasy is now reality and this is where your inner strength will shine or knock you out.

Either way, you'll learn the lesson of a lifetime with no regrets.

Jump in, the waters warm.

Who Will You Share Your Time With Tonight?

The answer may surprise you and actually keep you up.

To be continued...

Homecoming Is Here For All

My homecoming has arrived and I'm back. Sometimes, you have to leave what you know in order to find what you really want the most. To break out of your comfort zone can distort your reality and ultimately bring you the fulfillment you always wanted but never had.

Old look - new look. I suppose we look pretty good.

Objects Of Your Desire

People who objectify themselves deprive themselves from being a whole complete person. If you want to feel better, you need to feel all of yourself and accept yourself unconditionally. This may not be easy but a better more fulfilling life is possible and you deserve the highest value life can offer.