Bill Van Loan ~ Communications Strategist with a Photgraphic Memory

Are You As Sick As Your Secrets? You May Be Even More Healthy With Them!!!

It's true. Some secrets may be better for you....

Think about it...

Parents - If You Have Children That are Underage (Teens) Then You Need To Watch this Documentary ASAP: Oral Sex Is The New Goodnight Kiss!

Oral Sex Is The New Goodnight Kiss - Documentary is something to think about and discuss. Very relevant. Every parent needs to take responsibility for their children. If you can't talk to your children then you may want to talk to a therapist ASAP. 

Ladies - Are You Happy or Sad? This Study Says Women Are Unhappier Today - True or False?

Barbara Ehrenreich presents "The Sad Truth". I read this article in the LA Times this morning and I think her points are more than valid. This is worth reading whether your a man or a woman who is happy or unhappy. Any age will benefit.

Thought provoking and telling? More mandatory reading on Barbara and her insights at TomDispatch.com ....

Nightmares or Dark Dreams?

Remember to value the nightmares as much as the dreams and daydreams you have. Your body is always telling you something. Your body knows and communicates in many ways but you have to pay attention and listen.

Nightmares are tough but if you record them you'll be a lot better off. They can even save your life. Sounds like an oxymoron. Email me tomorrow morning and let me know how you feel about the true meaning of your nightmares. There are exceptions but nightmares can be a blessing in disguise.

Nightmares on your street can save your life with powerful messages worth remembering. Fear can be your worst enemy or your best friend.

It's time to hit the sheets and what's happening as you fall into another deep sleep? Why do so many people love scary movies? The movies can be very activating and motivate us to do so many things and the fantasies are not even real. Your buttons are pushed, you got what you wanted and that's scary stuff.

Stable Individuals, Fragile People and Broken Lives

Uncontrolled and controlled environments bring different things out of different people. People who act like wind up dolls and broken toys deserve your help but set your limits fast as things can get out of hand before you know what hit you.

Take your time in any relationship. This is not a cookie cutter world and one size of anything does not fit all. Customize your life and structure it in a way that leaves you feeling better at the end of anything than at the beginning of something that holds so much promise yet is not water tight.

Your time is now and your job is to make it last.

Think value before doing a to do list that has a hundred items on it.

Think for yourself and about yourself - that wind up doll could spin out of control and that could happen to any of us.

Know yourself...

Mirrors That Reflect the Hidden Soul

Who are you? Don't you know? Try this exercise for fun.

With your clothes on, stand in front of a long vanity mirror and look at yourself. Use your focus and look even harder. Don't stop until you can see what you have never seen before.

It will come and it's just a matter of time. The purpose of this exercise is too show you that that your so much more than you think you are and now could not be a better time to celebrate that fact.

The "you" you never say before is looking right at you and man, have you got soul.

Dark

Dealing With Unreal Fear Using Real Courage

I have found that once a time tested strategy is developed then the anticipatory anxiety falls because your prepared for what you think is the worst possible outcome.

Fear can be your worst enemy or best friend.

Listen to your body and plan ahead.

The History That Can Make You Happy

So much has happened in my life. So much history. So many stories to tell and even more to share.

Wherever you go - your history follows. If managed well, your past can lead you to your dreams. I know I can grow from every opportunity I'm faced with. Building on everything you have survived and accomplished can raise your self-esteem higher and that feels like a fountain of youth. In other words, your tapping into the biggest part of yourself and that's power.

I use my history to get what I want because no one knows me better than myself and that's makes for one history book worth reading. Learning from your history is like learning magic. Once you figure out what you once thought was impossible, pieces of your life may suddenly fit together and make your new life possible.

Never deny yourself when life presents a new opportunity worth reading. Start writing your new life chapter and make more history today.

Un-Thinkable

He changed and She changed. What really happened to what so many say was a love story that could do no wrong?

The relationship of a lifetime may be history for now but fighting for irrationality is, in fact, history and a losing battle.

Can you change something that causes you to do the un-thinkable or have you summed up life with so much irrationality that it really doesn't matter anymore?

He said and She said - Will the real story please stand up so we can all be rational.