Bill Van Loan ~ Memorist & Strategist

Making Love and Music - Soul Mates Are Forever

Everytime I see her, I feel my love coming on so strong and there is just no way I can deny it. Like a waterfall, she showers me with love and the highest degree of affection. The honeymoon phase is over and this is real.

Love is never enough though. It takes a lot of work to maintain a relationship in the deepest of ways. We're worth it and every second counts.

Enjoy the little things because everything adds up... 

Soulmating, the Laundry Room and the Naked Truth

If your open and committed, you can meet someone special almost anywhere. Even while cleaning towels, you can meet your future soul mate.

Truth is stranger than fiction.

Angie Treats Me So Well Because I Treat Her Like A Treasure And She's Worth A Million!

Angie reminds me that I have more guts than God and I won't lose the love letters I'm sending on my behalf. Justice is one thing I will always fight to the last degree for.

I love Angie. We have been friends for close to 5 years and I can't find find enough time to tell her how much I love her. I look into her eyes and see everything I could ever want. I trust her like no other and miss her tremendously when were apart.

I want her to be happy and I want to finish my letters so I can get on with my incomplete life. Everything feels like it's been on hold and I'm wrapping things up.

Angie and Danielle I love you both for being there for me when I needed you most. The two of you are not divided by love but rather here when I need you and I'm here for you.

I can never have enough friends and these two dream come trues are more than a start. I'm cleaning house and I only want people in my life who care about me and not the fantasy that so many others see. I am visible and so much that's good in their eyes because they took the time to really get to know me. Nothings perfect but these two did not burn me and I can't thank them enough for that.

Angie (Danielle knows this) I can never say I Love You enough and mean it like never before. I'm growing deeper and deeper into who I want to be more like and thank you for your support. It means the world to me.

1968 or 2008 Angie is so special. My heart melts every time and you know I love that like I Love You.

My soulmate Danielle approves 100% and that's cool too.

Too Much, Too Soon And Too Late - What Does This All Mean?

Being naturally mercurial may translate into doing things at the very last moment for all the right reasons and producing a masterpiece of work.

Be yourself and never let others dictate what you will do with your life.

If the last minute rush works and the world is a better place then make your own music and play on.

Everyone is different so why try to be someone your not. No one can be you no matter what they think.

Be unique and be the person you were meant to be. Never let others define or judge you. That's your job, even if your running late.

Christmas 2006 Mom, Me, Family And More Danielle Than I Could Ever Imagine!

Another incredible holiday just made history and for all the right reasons. Everyone knows how much I love my Mom and family but Danielle was a surprise.

This Christmas was really unique by the fact that I spent so much time discussing heavy topics like the Fantasy Bond (a super book by Robert W. Firestone). I'm better off than I've ever been and today will even be better.

Danielle is the Christmas angel and I am giving myself what I need and deserve. I am not depending on anyone but me. I am not attached to anything or anyone and I love it...

Who will be the New Years Angel?

Danielle, yours truly or my Mom?

You'll know within a week and you will know so much more?

And,

Danielle, my Mom does read the column I post about you and finds it quite entertaining.

Soul Mates Always Make Up

All soul mate couples get into fights but through thick and thin they also make up. The relationship is deep enough to endure whatever comes along.

So, when something does not come from your partner soon enough - Relax - just know it's coming.

Soul to soul - your already where you need to be.

Think: Stay in the present and be thankful for what you've got. Look what you've worked so hard to build together. Your actions are really saying something.

Some things just go without saying...

Try letting things come naturally. Forcing an issue the hard way is like the square peg syndrome and just does not work.

Let those nine lives count for something and let your soul rest tonight.

Think: Be a soul survivor and so much more...

She's Not Me And I'm Not Her

Communication is absolutely a two-way street and as the years go by it has to go deeper and deeper or the relationship goes nowhere and stalls out.

Set yourself on fire for your soul mate and get so close that you feel like your one. One on one. Now that's communication.

You really have to work at this as your relationship will only become more complex as it grows. Remind yourself that you always have options when things feel rough and ready.

New experiences will only compliment what you have so talk to one another, have fun and be careful with the mind games. People who think their fortune tellers or mind readers - they just may be in for a few surprises and headaches that won't leave until you do.

Sand castles melt in the sand but your foundation of peak communication will stand tall when a wipe out approaches and fails to knock you out.

Think: Try staying an "I" when your part of a "We". Your connection will only grow stronger because your giving so much more to your relationship. Experiment and you will find a winning style that's reliable and the best part - it works.

Soul Mating is hard work so never give up - the rewards are worth all the work.