Bill Van Loan ~ Memorist & Strategist

Everybody Has a Facebook Fantasy - What's yours?

Fantasies are not real. Is that correct? Fantasies are real on Facebook. It's true and it can happen to you.

I have lived a very colorful life. During the process I have met lots of wonderful people whom I never thought I'd see again. This happened for a complexity of reasons.

It's a fantasy of mine to meet some of these people that rank high in my hall of fame and I am reuniting with some as I put myself out there. Fantasies come true.

If you want more results in your life, then put yourself out there and really live. Put those resolutions to rest and get what you want starting now!!!!

Facebook offers you unlimited options to make it and avoid procrastination. It's so simple and easy.

Question: What's one of your Facebook fantasies and what will you do to get it?

Bonus Resolution: Start making your dream come true today by using Facebook and your new action plan together.

Resolutions that Break the Mirror (and help you)!

As worthy a New Year's Resolution as you'll find (or I'll find): "Do one thing every day that scares you."--Eleanor Roosevelt

Courtesy of TomPeters.com

Mystery emails

I received a time sensitive question through Google search. That's a first and the questions cover long term action plans, strategies behind them and related. I will answer the questions in the near future.

It will be worth the wait...

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Redefining Your Values and Value

The recession provides you with an opportunity to take another look at what ticks inside of your brain and warms you up on a chilly Christmas Eve.

Be honest with yourself and that may be the best gift you receive this season.

Re-write your action plan and reduce your stress and anxiety.

Open a new present and it's the process, the element of surprise that's so fun.

Open a new life plan and things begin to look better right away. That process may last longer than your new present.

Tear up that plan and make a new one when it expires. This the hard part for so many. Who knows what your next gift may be? It could come anytime...

Wide, Deep and Peak Communication/Appreciation Is Needed Everywhere

There's nothing like appreciation. Being thankful you have what you have is an everyday thing and not one day out of the year.

If you have any doubts, read the paper and ask yourself where you stand?

While you cut that turkey on the 27th, someone will announce a job cut.

Now what are you thankful for because that's a lot of turkey?

That's a deep cut...

The volunteers at this years charities are serving the volunteers from the last because they have no jobs. Thank God this country is so resilient.

What next I wonder?

Angie Treats Me So Well Because I Treat Her Like A Treasure And She's Worth A Million!

Angie reminds me that I have more guts than God and I won't lose the love letters I'm sending on my behalf. Justice is one thing I will always fight to the last degree for.

I love Angie. We have been friends for close to 5 years and I can't find find enough time to tell her how much I love her. I look into her eyes and see everything I could ever want. I trust her like no other and miss her tremendously when were apart.

I want her to be happy and I want to finish my letters so I can get on with my incomplete life. Everything feels like it's been on hold and I'm wrapping things up.

Angie and Danielle I love you both for being there for me when I needed you most. The two of you are not divided by love but rather here when I need you and I'm here for you.

I can never have enough friends and these two dream come trues are more than a start. I'm cleaning house and I only want people in my life who care about me and not the fantasy that so many others see. I am visible and so much that's good in their eyes because they took the time to really get to know me. Nothings perfect but these two did not burn me and I can't thank them enough for that.

Angie (Danielle knows this) I can never say I Love You enough and mean it like never before. I'm growing deeper and deeper into who I want to be more like and thank you for your support. It means the world to me.

1968 or 2008 Angie is so special. My heart melts every time and you know I love that like I Love You.

My soulmate Danielle approves 100% and that's cool too.

Too Much, Too Soon And Too Late - What Does This All Mean?

Being naturally mercurial may translate into doing things at the very last moment for all the right reasons and producing a masterpiece of work.

Be yourself and never let others dictate what you will do with your life.

If the last minute rush works and the world is a better place then make your own music and play on.

Everyone is different so why try to be someone your not. No one can be you no matter what they think.

Be unique and be the person you were meant to be. Never let others define or judge you. That's your job, even if your running late.

Dealing With Unreal Fear Using Real Courage

I have found that once a time tested strategy is developed then the anticipatory anxiety falls because your prepared for what you think is the worst possible outcome.

Fear can be your worst enemy or best friend.

Listen to your body and plan ahead.

Christmas 2006 Mom, Me, Family And More Danielle Than I Could Ever Imagine!

Another incredible holiday just made history and for all the right reasons. Everyone knows how much I love my Mom and family but Danielle was a surprise.

This Christmas was really unique by the fact that I spent so much time discussing heavy topics like the Fantasy Bond (a super book by Robert W. Firestone). I'm better off than I've ever been and today will even be better.

Danielle is the Christmas angel and I am giving myself what I need and deserve. I am not depending on anyone but me. I am not attached to anything or anyone and I love it...

Who will be the New Years Angel?

Danielle, yours truly or my Mom?

You'll know within a week and you will know so much more?

And,

Danielle, my Mom does read the column I post about you and finds it quite entertaining.

Night Falls Fast

Keep track of your time or you will lose it.