Bill Van Loan ~ Memorist & Strategist

Winning and Losing

Losing may give you an advantage. Next time will be different and you learned something. The winners gets away with what - poetic justice?

Think short term vs. long term.

It's just a matter of time and you'll learn even more. That's a score and always walk away from bad business. Some things and some people are just not worth it?

Save your energy for something that is...

No Winners or Losers

Sometimes, there are only different people. No labels. No tags. Just people who want to get along in a world that has changed in many different ways.

Save your energy for yourself and think of the word "humanitarian".

Dark Angels v. Lost Angels

If you look hard enough, you can see the light. Lost can always be found. An angel is an angel. Period.

People Lie and They Die

Win or lose? Your honesty will always give you the upper hand. There is so much corruption in this country. A well known lawyer told me that her case load is tough. She said, "people lie and they die". Yes, there are honest people too but it's tough.

Stay honest. You may not win every fight but you will be a winner and that's the bottom line. Sell outs don't count. They lack the integrity it takes to make it and everybody suffers.

People who lie just don't make it and are overrated. Their actions reflect on all of us and that's a pretty heavy price to pay.

Dark

Uniqueness

Sometimes, I don't feel like any of these labels that society tells us but I know one thing for sure - I am unique and there's no question about that. Different sounds better anyways because were all different.

It's Your Body So Don't Upset Yourself

The more experiences you have the better. How else will you know what you like and don't like. This applies to all areas of your life.

Now, the challenge. Other people who don't exactly work out and really give you a headache. Your job to soul satisfaction and the relationship of your dreams is to not disturb yourself and get yourself so upset that you end up missing out on something you really want but did not see - because your on fire about something that's really not in your future.

Does that make sense?

You will live longer if your stress level is lower and so will your love life. Save your drama for your life story on film and live for today.

If your out holiday shopping - make sure you buy yourself a really nice gift.

A classic song title goes 'Your the best thing that ever happened to me' so remind yourself of that by dedicating something special to you every day.

The love you create is equal to the love you make.

Last note - your best friends and partners will love you for who you are - not your job, money etc. I mean nothing more and nothing less.

You are number one and that's where the focus needs to be. Otherwise your focus will be somewhere else.

Make sure all your power stays with yourself. If it's not you then who is more worthy?

Lets Take Care Of US - The Survival Of The Fittest Game

Sometimes you have to take a risk in order to really take care of yourself. Risk taking is not always a win/win deal and sometimes it can be a total lose/lose. A lose can be a win if you can move on to the next goal and accomplish whatever your needs may be.

Some of us - like myself - need to push farther along and risk a crash and burn in order to win. The stakes are high and the payoff is a piece of heaven.

Today, I was willing to die (or crash) with some well thought out risk taking in order to live better. Was it worth it? Yes.

I won a win/win/win/win without burning and feel like I'm on fire. Yes, it gets better but keep in mind that this type of explosive growth opportunity is not for everyone. If your not sure your into this then delegate so you can win more often and stay alive in a world that continues to speed up without breaks.

It's a case of survival of the fittest.

People Who Can't Help Themselves

It seems the holidays bring out the best and worst when it comes to how your treated. Having compassion for those who cross the line is one thing but sharing your time without a serious change means you walk the line.

Otherwise the worst will walk all over you and nothing can justify that.

Not even the winners and remember their counting on you to save yourself.

When you reflect on Thanksgiving Day - make sure you thank yourself first.

Managing Your Life - The Hidden Key To Having High Self-Esteem And More

Once you get this down your life lessons and rewards will never stop. Just think win/win and you can change the past if you look at it differently.

You always have more options.

Never underestimate your talent or yourself. The same with compromises. If your even thinking of bending then what's in it for you.

Think about it.

It's just a matter of time till you get what you want.